Hope_eternal
Senior Member
- Messages
- 287
I caretake for my 20 yr old son. He’s been bed ridden for over a year. His energy is so low he states he can barely make trips to the bathroom. He hasn’t brushed his teeth consistently for the year, maybe a handful of times and he can take a shower only once or twice a month., I worry about his mouth hygiene. Is there anything I can do to help him with this? I’ve offered to help him brush (he says no to that) and there have been times I’ve left fresh water and a bucket with his tooth brush and tooth paste by his bedside but he doesn’t use it. I don’t want to overwhelm him so I don’t push the issue but am very concerned about his mouth health and all that bacteria getting into his body. I would appreciate any suggestions you may have.
Also because of the infrequent showers things can get quite potent after a while. I’ve left clean shirts and wipes but he seldom uses them. Again I don’t want to overwhelm him so I don’t press the issue. I suspect he is very low energy wise and has to pick and choose what he can do. If you have any suggestions I’d be greatly appreciative.
My last concern is I feel he’s on his laptop way too much. He is on it all waking hours. I spoke with him about this possibility keeping him in his zapped state as it might be too stimulating. He doesn’t want to give it up understandably because then there’s nothing for him to do. I suggested listening to audio books or doing visualization relaxation throughout the day but…Ug he resists. I know this illnesses takes away so much so I sympathize with him and his situation. All he has is us and that lap top. 😭 it’s a very difficult place to be. Again, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Also because of the infrequent showers things can get quite potent after a while. I’ve left clean shirts and wipes but he seldom uses them. Again I don’t want to overwhelm him so I don’t press the issue. I suspect he is very low energy wise and has to pick and choose what he can do. If you have any suggestions I’d be greatly appreciative.
My last concern is I feel he’s on his laptop way too much. He is on it all waking hours. I spoke with him about this possibility keeping him in his zapped state as it might be too stimulating. He doesn’t want to give it up understandably because then there’s nothing for him to do. I suggested listening to audio books or doing visualization relaxation throughout the day but…Ug he resists. I know this illnesses takes away so much so I sympathize with him and his situation. All he has is us and that lap top. 😭 it’s a very difficult place to be. Again, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.