What I’ve found that seems to work fairly well is not telling the random person I have ME or CFS, or PotS. Firstly, most people have never heard of ME or PoTS. And CFS has gotten a bad rap. But if I tell people I have a neuroimmune disease or condition, this seems to appease their curiosity, and settle their questions. After all, ME is considered by many specialists as a neuroimmune disease, even if they cannot “prove” anything about the condition… And the term neuroimmune in many peoples minds triggers visions of Lyme and other more well known conditions. It also seems to trigger autoimmune issues since the terms are so close, and to people who don’t know the details, one seems to go with the other.
I used to work with other Vets and ex-cops in a place that worked with responders (cops, Vets, medics, firefighters, emergency room docs) suffering from job related trauma. So, I know quite a few cops. We’ve had discussions about this very topic. They agreed that if someone tells them they have a neuroimmune disease, or severe neuroimmune disease, then the person is taken seriously. But if someone throws out the CFS title, many cops are not up to date on its reality, and so wrongly, but some will dismiss the claim.
Neuroimmune and dysautonomia are two titles that seem far more accepted than ME or CFS, even if the person has no idea what they are, and so have a harder time placing prejudice and preconceived ideas onto them.